Tough love is an excuse for no love. Too much toughness with too little love. Focus too much on the tough part without the balance of love. You are only raising psychopaths. Some people need a lot more positive reinforcement than toughness. Sometimes, someone needs a little push, but that push should never involve breaking … Read more
There is a lot of compatibility issues involved and it’s even harder nowadays because of how wide ranging our beliefs can be. The only advice I have is to not compromise on your values and principles, find the person you are looking for or die trying I wasn’t a good partner until I was about … Read more
Sorry maybe this is dumb, but please don’t so easily take something someone else said or written to be the profound ultimate truth. ************************* Contributing to a relationship is not the same as a transaction. You already said it well with regard to sex, “it’s a shared experience”. A relationship is about being a team, … Read more
